Monday, November 14, 2005

Where oh where is Loreli?

The blogging community undergoes constant change. I used to read someone, loreliagilmore, and it appears that she left without a trace. Don't bother trying the link – it does not exist anymore.

I wonder why someone chooses to cancel their account. I do wonder about loreli – she seemed to be so interesting, sad at times, but we are all sad at times. Perhaps the WB asked Blogger to cancel the account? Who really knows?

I had a strange dream last night. Remember the person I wrote about – the lesbian who had both a husband and a lover? I had not thought about her for quite some time, and after writing the post, I dreamed about her. She was getting a divorce from her hubbie – and I did not understand why. I mean, it did not have to do with her sexual preference. Her husband enabled her to be "very comfortable" in her life. And sometimes we take comfort over love. In my mind, she had both comfort and love.

Perhaps loreli started mixing blogging and her personal life. When I awoke from the dream, the first thing I thought was "holy crap, am I a loony or what?" Sanity, I think, is fragile. How many times have we heard about sane, nice people that suddenly snap?

And about me? Is my sanity being challenged? Nah, I am not brilliant enough or odd enough. Sure hope loreli is alright, though. There seemed to be a brilliance in her writing, as spark of one at least.

Methinks, as I cackle. Debbie asked me in my last post if I would write about anything.

Monday: Killer P
Tuesday: Bathroom Sex
Thursday: Three Lesbian Friends
Friday: Shaving
Monday: Sanity.

Perhaps.

11 comments:

ken said...

ever my morning deligh..though i am usually well into my day before your posts hit the presses....thanks for sharing...loreleis absence brings to mind a few friends i thought i sparked with, who mysteriously disappeared with no further contact.......i do take a hiatus at times..travel....yet unlike my initial foray into flirt sites, the blogland is ever enticing, entertaining and educational!!! thanks leesa..and this boy will comment on most subjects as well...

Sassy said...

perhaps Loreli will do what I did...cancel a blog and then start a new one somewhere, which you will eventually find.

sometimes we dont' always know what kind of private responses people get from their blogs.

I just chose to make mine not exist anymore. I hope she does start up again though...

Grant said...

I've known some bloggers who suddenly vanish with no explanation. The people who vanish and then contact me later seem to have similar stories - people in their real life discovered their blog (family, lovers, stalkers) and it made things difficult for them. The blogsphere always reminds me of Dorothy when she said "People come and go so quickly here." As for me, don't worry. I'm not going anyw

Thomas said...

Sometimes people share and share, only to be hit with the realization that they shouldn't share so much.

They delete the blog while running and hiding or delete all their previous posts and stick with "ho-hum" subjects until they can;t take it anymore.

Never be afraid to say what's on your mind. Never be afraid to stumble.

Be afraid of being silent. Be afraid of staying down.

Innocence can be stripped away, like having Santa, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy all revealed as shams at the same time, but it reveals the truth... Well, at least it reveals something more truthful...

When you peel enough layers, you know what to let alone to avoid losing the mystery all together.

Georgiapeach said...

Well, I am still waiting on some new short stories..lol. Seriously.

Slut Betty said...

I agree with your previous posters who say that at times people disappear when they realize they have said too much... one of the reasons I don't really talk about my private home life much... I have been down that road and it ended in me deleting my journal from another site... although I have still remained in contact with those I developed a closer bond with... I don't want to have to run from here that's why I am choosing to write the way I have this time.

LOL @ writing about anything... doesn't matter what you write about Leesa... I have always enjoyed it :-) Have a great day!

Georgiapeach said...

Do you mind if I post your profile pic on my blog tomorrow? I am writing a post on my interpretation of beauty

Long Iron said...

I have to admit Leesa, your never boring. Even when my day is totally f'ed up, I try to see what kind of adventure you have to share. Nope! Definitely not boring.

I can also understand bailing on a blog. Some a'hole at work who came across my blog thought it might be funny to paste my link on to an inter company email and spread it around. He has since quit and has been in hiding ever since. I'm like an elephant that way.......I won't forget.

Storm said...

I have often wondered why people cancel their accounts overnight. I guess they get to a point that it just isn't worth it any longer. Who knows?

kathi said...

I'd read her blog too, and wondered about it. I'd be lost without you though, don't ever leave us!

Video X said...

i deleted a blog once...but that was because i thought it was ridiculous and somebody told me to go to hell...not on mine, but on theirs. i never thought i was exactly mean so it bothered me. but then a couple people brought me back. haha. now i still think it's ridiculous. my blog is pretty personal...but i dont care. mostly i like to read other blogs! and yours is especially fun to read.