tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post6267786928179966058..comments2024-02-26T11:07:08.028-05:00Comments on Leesa's Stories: The Economics of ProstitutionLeesahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09552562808209927463noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-32676529529381400462007-11-02T07:12:00.000-05:002007-11-02T07:12:00.000-05:00garyg: for some women, sex is part of the cost of ...garyg: for some women, sex is part of the cost of the relationship (trying to continue on the economics theme). But after marriage, sex does not have the same value. What my husband found out long ago was that oral sex on his part would get him what he wanted. Yeah, the love is there, but the oral sex seems to motivate me more.Leesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09552562808209927463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-70996750401503605172007-11-01T11:49:00.000-05:002007-11-01T11:49:00.000-05:00What a great entry! I love it!I always thought I...What a great entry! I love it!<BR/><BR/>I always thought I was born at the wrong time: there is no such thing these days similar to Belle's place in "Gone With The Wind", where men can go to release that seemingly inevitable frustration. I've been married twice, and have in both cases confirmed the sad truth of the consumption of wedding cake destroying libido. I don't understand that. My drive, and my level of attraction, has not and does not seem to wane, yet a wife's drive seems to have more moving parts than a Dyna-Flow automatic transmission. In fairness, I have learned that there is a combination of hormonal interactions going on inside a woman's body that would make Rube Goldberg gasp in confusion, and any little increase or decrease can lead to a cannonball into a vat of chocolate. So, patience seems to be best. Or handcuffs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-70072565225563209202007-10-24T07:48:00.000-05:002007-10-24T07:48:00.000-05:00rwa: when I was in English, I was learning the rul...rwa: when I was in English, I was learning the rules of the language, not checking out the teachers. Well, most of them were women, anyway.Leesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09552562808209927463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-56206786457094320692007-10-23T13:46:00.000-05:002007-10-23T13:46:00.000-05:00Oh, I wouldn't say it is a problem with your thoug...Oh, I wouldn't say it is a problem with your thoughts. Just a bad draw of English teachers on my part...Southern (in)Sanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08161448234899521650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-2453052587100821492007-10-23T10:21:00.000-05:002007-10-23T10:21:00.000-05:00~deb: Oh, and I thought that "woman's code" was to...~deb: Oh, and I thought that "woman's code" was to have sex with any lesbian that asked. That's what Kate told me.<BR/><BR/>~gwk: funny man.<BR/><BR/>larry: oh, that is too much thought. Sort of blows my idea.<BR/><BR/>ian: yeah, I sort of agree with the madam.<BR/><BR/>rwa: well, okay, another problem with my thoughts.<BR/><BR/>larry: wow!<BR/><BR/>advizor: acceptance. I guess I learned something the other day.<BR/><BR/>larry: sex futures.<BR/><BR/>colleen: he would be glad that he was nearer to his prime, I suppose.Leesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09552562808209927463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-54369224004562398792007-10-22T21:59:00.000-05:002007-10-22T21:59:00.000-05:00I wonder what he would say about males reaching th...I wonder what he would say about males reaching their sexual peak in their early 20's and women in the late 30's.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-64272950924497742052007-10-22T15:20:00.000-05:002007-10-22T15:20:00.000-05:00Sex FuturesI want to find investors that will join...Sex Futures<BR/><BR/>I want to find investors that will join me in creating the Las Vegas Board of Sex Futures.<BR/><BR/>We would sell blow job, straight sex and kinky sex futures for starters.<BR/><BR/>You could get in on the ground floor of an exciting career!<BR/><BR/>LOLLarryLillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07476633371958841991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-77127813774732107312007-10-22T15:16:00.000-05:002007-10-22T15:16:00.000-05:00I disagree with LarryLilly about why men visit pro...I disagree with LarryLilly about why men visit prostitutes. <BR/><BR/>I don't believe that men visit prostitutes for "control", they visit them for acceptance. We want to be accepted without questions, arguments, debates, judgment, or guilt. <BR/><BR/>If we want sex, we want sex without a discussion of weight gain, or job status, or the "honey-do" list, or a million things that women throw out to kill the mood and get out of sex.<BR/><BR/>If we want to gently tie you up and play with bondage, or ask you to dress a certain way, or even take on a new position, we do not want a debate over how your mother, God, or the Pope would feel about things.<BR/><BR/>LarryLilly seems to see these as control issues, and perhaps they are, but not for men. These are control issues for women. Most women want to control the entire sexual relationship, the frequency, position, emotional content, 'significance', and 'meaning' of sex has to carefully negotiated in accordance with HER terms, rarely his. <BR/><BR/>90% of the emotional overhead that women bring to sex is 100% irrelevant to men. We like sex because it feels good and because we feel connected to our partner. But it doesn't "mean" anything beyond that; we find meaning within the relationship in other ways. <BR/><BR/>So back to the original point. Prostitutes provide a judgment-free environment where men can ask for, and get, sexual intimacy and acceptance, without having to negotiate its significance or give up their dignity to appease an unwilling partner.<BR/><BR/>Women, as many have posted, would have fewer cheating husbands if they were able to empathize with, and understand how men experience sexual intimacy. This newfound empathy would most likely, but not always, result in more frequent sex, but undoubtedly, it would involve more spontaneous, uninhibited, and less stressful sex. <BR/><BR/>If women would stop giving a dose of guilt and grief with every orgasm, if they would stop making their men beg for it, if they would stop acting like they are doing their men some giant favor, they would get more of it themselves. <BR/><BR/>Then everybody would be happy.Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-44296302542348153462007-10-22T14:25:00.000-05:002007-10-22T14:25:00.000-05:00There is the blog "Post Secrets" that had an inter...There is the blog "Post Secrets" that had an interesting secret posted a couple of weeks ago. It was from a woman that said "I was talking to my girlfreind the other day about my pending divorce, and she said that if I had given my husband all that I could, he would never have cheated on me. After my divorce was final I had sex with her husband."<BR/><BR/>OUCH!LarryLillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07476633371958841991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-83818255246906116862007-10-22T13:46:00.000-05:002007-10-22T13:46:00.000-05:00Hmmmm..."...perhaps we should just make the Englis...Hmmmm...<BR/><BR/>"...perhaps we should just make the English teachers be more open to sex."<BR/><BR/>I don't know about English teachers now, but when I was in school, I only recall ONE that I would have had even the slightest bit of interest in sleeping with.<BR/><BR/>And she was so stuck on herself that I probably wouldn't have done it if she had been "open" to it.<BR/><BR/>At least I don't think I would have.Southern (in)Sanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08161448234899521650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-70814087128295088892007-10-22T12:32:00.000-05:002007-10-22T12:32:00.000-05:00Oh, Sherwood Anderson's not so bad.Your suggestion...Oh, Sherwood Anderson's not so bad.<BR/>Your suggestion reminds me of a newspaper interview I once conducted with the madam of an escort agency. We were talking about the existence of prostitution and why it fulfilled a function in society. She said: "If more wives or girlfriends would be prepared to put out or give a blowjob first thing in the morning when men are at their horniest, then they wouldn't have any need for my girls and I'd be out of business."Ian Lidsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14106994463366766471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-63735960938664889342007-10-22T11:50:00.000-05:002007-10-22T11:50:00.000-05:00I thought sadistic middle school english teachers ...I thought sadistic middle school english teachers made you read the original old english Beowulf.<BR/><BR/>As far as prostitution goes, well, prostitutes dont sell sex, they sell control in the form of control of a woman by a man. Based on talking with lots of married women, its not lack of sex drive by a woman, in fact, most women in a married/committed relationship would say they dont get enough sex, especially after mid 30's. Its an incorrect male joke that they dont get enough by their woman.<BR/><BR/>I would guess that men that seek prostitutes are doing their egos a boost not from the actually sex, but the form of control they have for a moment over a woman that gives no grief over the control he has over them. <BR/><BR/>So economics of sex isnt about the selling of sex, its the selling of egotism.LarryLillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07476633371958841991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-91414864644952593842007-10-22T10:13:00.000-05:002007-10-22T10:13:00.000-05:00I personally LOVE the idea!! I say You gals shoul...I personally LOVE the idea!! I say You gals should get to work!!~gkwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03703628828260210986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16163858.post-85491039682207343902007-10-22T10:02:00.000-05:002007-10-22T10:02:00.000-05:00Leesa, it's up to you and me to save this world of...Leesa, it's up to you and me to save this world of prostitution and take on many, many men to save the world! <BR/><BR/>Well, I'll take the women. :)Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14986475569600734742noreply@blogger.com